Would we ever have it on during a session?
While I'm wallowing in darkness, she's enjoying chilled out "me time".
This - Mary Black - is more likely to be on the iPod:
That asynchronicity is at the heart of Vanilla Femdom: her mostly "vanilla" choices generate kink for him. If the theme music contrasts, then it's working as it's supposed to.
Better yet, he's on the outside looking in at the warmth. How deliciously dark is that?