|Intimacy & Desire|
It's one of those books designed to cure your sexless marriage. The difference is that Dr Schnarch is an experienced couple therapist with multiple qualifications, committed to evidence based treatments, with a working knowledge of Evolutionary Psychology.
So he's not just "some guy off the Internet" (like me), he's the real deal.
The book doesn't claim to be a magic bullet, either. You have to actually read it to get the full use of his ideas. However, some of what he has to say applies directly to Vanilla Dominatrix land, or Roma as I'm starting to call it.
Schnarch's "Intimacy and Desire" in a nutshellIn any marriage:
- One partner will have a higher desire than the other.
- Initially, each partner will base his or her self esteem on the other.
"Intimacy and Desire" from a Femdom perspective
|"she hates feeling like |
some sort of trophy"