Monday 5 March 2012

The perils of paying for Femdom

There's a good post on the problem with paying for Femdom over at Romance and Bondage, the blog of a well-grounded Canadian Domme. The upshot is, by paying a professional, submissive males may only get their fantasies mirrored back to them, and then get an odd idea of what dommes would really do for fun.

2 comments:

  1. Exactly! Your point about fun is so true too. If she is doing what he wants she isn't able to have fun and really enjoy everything. She is holding back and reading a script. Kind of boring really.

    I played online years ago. I enjoyed creating situations but by the end of it when he was all worked up and enjoying it, having an orgasm... that was the time I would be wondering what I was doing this for. I was just waiting for it to be over so I could do something else. It was boring, very one sided.

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  2. Of course, there's nothing wrong with "service topping", but it's not actually Femdom.

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